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Do people like you?

by Mari-Lyn on February 15, 2012

in Relationships

Friends are like this multicolored rose

Friends are like this rose



Our relationships shouldn’t be taken for granted. How many things have people done for you? I am not writing about the simple acts of kindness, like opening the doors for you, or sharing a smile, or buying you a cup of coffee – it’s the kind of things like giving up a cab for you in the rain, or driving someone home when it’s out of your way, or someone pays for your cab ride and not expecting payment back. I used to work for friends, I lived on the other side of town, and I would work New Years Eve for them. They paid for my cab, I was helping them and they were helping me.

For trusted relationships mean to reach out to your customers or friends on the Social Network space by calling them up out of the blue, emails to wish you a happy holiday, or you taking the time out of your busy schedule to meet with you anyway. we need to develop more one on one relationships with people, not only our customers also other people we work or network with.

Social media has given us a way to stay in touch so much easier now. By delivering a whole bunch of heart felt messages or conversations you will have better relationships.

How can you get started? When you speak to them ask them about their family, what they do, extend an invite to join a group or a local networking event. As they talk as for ideas, it’s just conversation, eventually the relationship starts to blossom.

Did you know that, the more people who read and post information about their products and service on social media groups and see that you are sharing information, they will become more influenced by you. They’ll begin to ask you questions, ask for feedback or give you suggestions. When there is more sharing 3% of the people who read your information will become influenced. It’s care first and not sell first.

The time you spend on social networking is to help you to create brand ambassadors for yourself. You don’t want to leave any interactions behind. Your willingness to show that you care is important.

Thank people for re-tweeting your conversations or mentions or following you. Ask question or help them if they are looking for help. If you are on Facebook, like their comments, or share their content, only if it speaks to you. Engage in conversations, when you look on your news feeds people are sharing all kinds of stuff, quotes, videos, stories, or questions. Be sure to add your comments or suggestions. You want to be personable, maybe just not too personal.

You want to everyone to know who you are as a friend and neighbor.

Mari-Lyn Harris - a Relationship Marketing Specialist

Mari-Lyn Harris

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patricia February 15, 2012 at 11:39 pm

Thanks Mari-Lyn! great advice. Nicely written. great job!
My recent post Basics of Communication

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Mari-Lyn Harris February 16, 2012 at 3:54 pm

Thanks Patricia..your encouragement means much to me.

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Michele February 16, 2012 at 1:07 am

Good advice Mari-Lyn. Making friends online is challenging but so wonderful when you discover a kindred spirit. Liking and retweeting is a great way to do this.

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Mari-Lyn Harris February 16, 2012 at 3:53 pm

Hi Michele, it's like being a friendly neighbor. When we share we all win

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AJ Perisho February 16, 2012 at 1:08 am

I hope people like me :-)
Thanks for sharing a great post!
My recent post A Different Look at the Marketing Plan

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Mari-Lyn Harris February 16, 2012 at 3:52 pm

I really liked your way of looking different at your marketing..I hope people like me too!

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Leah February 16, 2012 at 1:25 am

This "If you are on Facebook, like their comments, or share their content, only if it speaks to you" is probably one of the core points – the content you endorse on social media by liking, retweeting, sharing etc must fall in line with your personality. If it doesn't – don't 'fake' it. The audience will notice and will not appreciate such fakeness.
My recent post “Write a letter – save a life” Challenge!!!

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Mari-Lyn Harris February 16, 2012 at 3:52 pm

Thanks Leah for the comment. Like you have said, sharing content that you don't agree with or find offensive is fake.

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LindaJoJenkins February 16, 2012 at 1:54 am

Love this post and it is so very true! It is about relationships. The old saying is true even today "Treat people the way you want to be treated."

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Mari-Lyn Harris February 16, 2012 at 3:48 pm

Thanks Linda, the challenge is most of the time we don't treat ourselves very well, the quote means well.

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LindaJoJenkins February 16, 2012 at 6:42 pm

So very true–we do not treat ourselves very well. However, it is not done intentionally. Loved the post! :)

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Mari-Lyn Harris February 16, 2012 at 7:15 pm

Thanks Linda. I appreciate you.

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wicklesselite1 February 16, 2012 at 3:45 am

I love this. Its so huge. Time to engage people.

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Mari-Lyn Harris February 16, 2012 at 3:47 pm

Thanks for your comment, glad to hear that you loved what I wrote.

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Leah February 16, 2012 at 12:21 pm

Absolutely – the surest way to receiving anything is giving first.
My recent post “Write a letter – save a life” Challenge!!!

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Mari-Lyn Harris February 16, 2012 at 3:46 pm

Thanks Leah, your post is great!

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Lori February 16, 2012 at 10:59 pm

Great advice! Thanks so much for this article!

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Mari-Lyn Harris February 17, 2012 at 4:59 pm

Glad you enjoyed it

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Becca February 17, 2012 at 1:19 am

I enjoy reading your post. Sometimes how much we're trying to help and be nice to other
people they still don't like us.

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Mari-Lyn Harris February 17, 2012 at 5:00 pm

It just means we keep trying and surrender.

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@RonaeHOPEcoach February 17, 2012 at 6:32 am

Thank you for a wonderful reminder of the importance of building relationships, not just constantly "beating our own drum". In social media, we're dealing with real people who are craving relationship!

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Mari-Lyn Harris February 17, 2012 at 5:01 pm

Absolutely, it's about being social and social media that given us a tool to do this.

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marie leslie February 17, 2012 at 11:25 am

Your post reminds me of the saying, "people don't care how much you know until they know how much you care." Genuine relationships are at the heart of every type of success in life.
My recent post A Pinterest -ing Social Media Success Story

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Mari-Lyn Harris February 17, 2012 at 5:02 pm

Yes, I loved your article about Pinterest..something I need to learn more about.

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Mike McDonald February 17, 2012 at 3:10 pm

Thanks Mari-Lyn. Social media is about relationships not just advertising. That was a big lesson for me to learn that it's not just about putting a product over and over without engaging with people. Then it's just spam and who likes that?
My recent post Why am I gaining weight? I just started working out.

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Mari-Lyn Harris February 17, 2012 at 5:03 pm

Thanks for the reminder Mike..

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Solvita February 18, 2012 at 10:50 pm

Great post! This is such a great advice, engaging is so key! :)
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Mari-Lyn Harris February 21, 2012 at 11:07 pm

Thanks Solvita for your comment.

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Hajra February 20, 2012 at 7:00 pm

Hey,

With the online world being a little difficult to maintain those relationships; we just need to work harder on maintaining those relationships. Just the other day we were discussing how real our online relationships are and apparently, we just need to make that effort to reach out and get to know your audience. The thought counts!
My recent post Will they call you over for a Bloggers Party?

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Mari-Lyn Harris February 21, 2012 at 11:06 pm

Yes, this is a challenge isn't it to stay in touch with people.

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Rob Russo February 21, 2012 at 8:19 pm

I hope people like me! :)

Great tips to keep in mind as building relationships online is a bit different than in person. Thank you.
My recent post Gotta Pinterest Interest?

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Mari-Lyn Harris February 21, 2012 at 11:04 pm

Thanks Rob, it was a great article the you wrote about. Thanks for commenting.

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